Chosen by Someone Else

The doorbell chimed, and Eliza flinched, her attention wavering from sorting through old family photographs. She hadn’t expected visitors.
“Who is it?” she called, heading toward the door.
“It’s me, love! Don’t get up, I’ll let myself in!” her mother’s brisk, Rhyneford-accented voice rang out, unmistakably cheerful for a woman in her late sixties.

Unlocking the door, Eliza admitted Eleanor Whitaker, who today looked as meticulously composed as always. A sharp navy coat, a crisp white scarf, and her silver-streaked hair pinned back revealed not a single wrinkle—despite her age.
“Mum, what brings you here? We only met three days ago,” Eliza said, tucking a loose strand of hair behind her ear.
“Must something be wrong for a mother to visit her daughter?” Eleanor asked, stepping into the room and surveying the scattered photo frames. “Sorting memories are you? And what’s this box doing here? Planning a move?”

Eliza exhaled. She hadn’t intended to announce her relocation just yet.
“Yes. I’ve been offered a promotion in London. It’s a big step up.”
“London?!” Eleanor’s eyebrows arched. “What about me? What about Charlie and the children? You know Miranda and Peter thrive with you. Who’ll pick them up from school when Charles is at work?”

Eliza bit her lip. There it was again. Her mother’s concern never truly centered on loneliness; it always revolved around her brother.
“Charlie has his wife, Natalie. Or let him hire a nanny—the man’s well-paid,” Eliza muttered, turning back to the box as if it held answers.
“Eliza Margaret, how can you say such things?” Eleanor gasped. “No nanny could replace family. The children adored you, and you were never just thirty-seven years young enough to leap from place to place.”

“I’m thirty-seven, not seventy,” Eliza snapped, her frustration spilling over. “And yes, I’m going. I’ve made up my mind.”

Eleanor slumped into a chair, cradling her face in her hands.
“Why must you be so cruel, leaving us alone?”
Eliza closed her eyes, counting to ten in her head—a technique honed from years of navigating her mother’s storms.
“Let me make some tea, Mum. We can talk more calmly,” she offered.

“Tea?!” Eleanor scoffed. “I’m on the verge of a heart attack, and you suggest tea? Have you considered what this will do to Charles? He’s already overworking to provide for his family!”
“And who thought about me?” Eliza whispered, but her mother, immersed in her lamentations, didn’t hear.

“Imagine, Miranda skipping through my garden to visit you after school now! And Peter, who refuses to do homework alone without you!” Eleanor’s words cut deeper than she intended. Once, Eliza had dreamed of children, but after her ten-year marriage collapsed when her husband left for another, those dreams had faded—replaced by tending to Miranda and Peter, the children of her only sibling.

“Let’s compromise,” Eliza tried. “I’ll visit every holiday and spend all my breaks with you.”
“Holidays?” Eleanor scoffed. “Who’ll keep the children occupied on Wednesdays when Natalie’s at her fitness class? Who’ll watch them while Charles takes Natalie to the theatre?”

The memory surfaced: a recent evening Eliza had canceled a rare date to sit with the boys. Charles and Natalie had stayed out, celebrating their anniversary. That night, her mother had called, calm and clinical: “The children are fine. You had that one appointment, right?” Eliza’s throat tightened at the thought.

“Mum,” she said firmly, cutting through the tirade, “I’m leaving in two weeks. No turning back now.”

Eleanor’s mouth tightened, and she rose slowly.
“Very well. Tell Charles himself. Let him know you’re abandoning us all.”
“I’m not abandoning anyone!” Eliza shouted. “I’m reclaiming my life!”

“Too late for that at thirty-seven,” Eleanor retorted, heading for the door. “But if your career means more than family, then so be it. Just don’t cry when you’re alone.”

The door slammed, and Eliza sank to the floor between the boxes, tears she hadn’t cried in years streaming down her face.

At the new architectural firm in London, her boss, a gaunt man with piercing eyes, studied her résumé.
“Impressive, Miss Whitaker. We need professionals like you. When can you start?”
“Next month. I need to wrap things up in Leeds and prepare here,” Eliza replied.

“Accommodation sorted yet?”
“I’ve rented a flat for now. Beyond that, I’ll decide.”

The boss nodded, shaking her hand. “Welcome to the team.”

Stepping into the frosty London air, Eliza inhaled deeply. Snow dusted the streets, a stark contrast to the drizzly November of Leeds. The chill was invigorating, and despite the ache of parting from her family, her chest felt unusually light.

Back in Leeds, Charles raged.
“You can’t do this to us! We’re a family! Mum’s frail, the kids are used to you—why are you so selfish?” he ranted, pacing her kitchen.
Eliza listened, detached, watching the man who’d once been her hero. Once, she’d envied his success and the children he’d given their mother. Now, she realized, she’d spent fifteen years of her life complying with their needs, never asking if they’d even considered hers.

“Charles, have you ever thought about what *I* want?” she asked softly.

He froze, mid-sentence.
“I sacrificed my plans, skipped dates, gave up my career for this,” she continued, voice breaking. “And not once did I hear a simple *thank you*.”

“Family isn’t supposed to need saying thanks, Eliza!” he barked.

“Exactly, Charles. It does.”

That conversation ended with the slam of a door. Later, he messaged: *Mum collapsed with high blood pressure. This is your fault. Happy now?*

Eliza didn’t reply. But days later, Natalie called.
“Don’t listen to anyone, Eliza. You need your own life. I’ve even shown the kids a map of London. I promised them you’ll have them visit over the holidays.”

Tears pricked Eliza’s eyes. “Thank you, Natalie. Truly.”

“Easy. And I’ll speak to your mum. She’ll get used to it eventually.”

Now, walking through London’s snowy streets, Eliza felt a mix of freedom and loneliness. Her phone buzzed—her mother’s number.

“Hello,” she answered.
“Eliza, love, how are you? Settled in?”
“Yes. I’ve started work in two weeks.”

A pause followed. “I was thinking… perhaps I should visit? Help you get things sorted. I’ve never been to London.”

Eliza stopped, stunned. “You want to come?”
“Of course. You’re alone there now.”

Behind the words was something deeper: *I miss you. I care.*

“I’d love that, Mum.”

Six months later, Eliza had found her rhythm. Her new flat was cozy, her colleagues friendly, and life in London thrilling. Her mother had visited twice—first for a week, then two. Their relationship softened. Eleanor, away from Rhyneford’s familiarity, seemed kinder, less rigid.

One evening, sipping tea, her mother abruptly said, “You always gave me more stress than Charles.”
“Why? He’s the younger one.”
“Exactly. You’ve always been independent, strong. Charlie… he just puts on a stiff upper lip. You held the family together after Dad. I didn’t realize how much I relied on you. Then, when you announced London, I feared losing you—because I didn’t know how to let you go.”

Eliza gripped her mother’s hand. “You didn’t lose me, Mum. I just needed to find myself.”

Their bond, once strained, now thrived on honesty.

When she met Martin, a project manager from her firm, she felt a glow she hadn’t known since her ex. He’d moved to London recently, leaving his ex-wife and young daughter in Manchester.

“Divorced three years ago,” he said over coffee. “Emma and I remain friends. She brings our daughter when she can.”

Eliza’s heart ached for him but also swelled with hope. For once, someone was stable and kind.

That holiday season, she invited him to Leeds. The family received him warmly. Eleanor, though uncharacteristically nervous, was charmed by Martin’s quiet strength. Charles, to her surprise, greeted her with a hug: “We missed you, sis.”

Miranda and Peter fell for him instantly.

“You and Martin are together now?” Miranda asked, ever the diplomatic child.
“Goodness, yes. If he’s okay with it,” Martin replied, kneeling to meet her gaze. “I’d like to be your friend, too.”

Later, alone with her mother, Eleanor raised a glass. “To my daughter. For finding the courage to change her life.”

Eliza met her mother’s eyes and saw the love she’d always craved—quiet, unwavering.

When they returned to London, Eleanor surprised her again: “Perhaps I should move here, too.”
“I’d be thrilled, Mum.”

That night, in the children’s bedroom, Eliza noticed a map on the wall. A red dot marked London, connected to Leeds with a string.

“I did this,” Miranda said proudly. “So we’ll know where to come next.”
“And if there are dinosaurs?” Peter asked.
“We’ll find them,” Eliza promised, tucking him in.

In that moment, Eliza realized her mother hadn’t chosen anyone over her. She’d only ever given fragments of herself to all she loved. Now, in London, far from Rhyneford, Eliza had found not just independence but a deeper understanding of the family she’d feared losing.

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